The last six weeks have been quite difficult for some close friends and family. One of my dearest colleagues is watching his daughter battle leukaemia, and while her long-term prognosis is excellent, her current quality of life is horrendous because the myriad of drugs floating in her system have caused her pain and nausea. At the same time, a close cousin of mine is battling two cancers at once, an old online friend died last week, and today, I watched a good friend bury his father. While none of this is happening to me, the world has become quite dark recently for people that I care about, and it has affected me greatly. I love them dearly and just want the best for them, and yet feel like a helpless by-stander.
Until yesterday, that is. I got the sweetest email from someone who has been having recent difficulties, and I just wanted that person to know that they really made my day. Apparently, some of the fiction I wrote helped this person work through some personal issues, just because of the way certain characters very working through their own problems. My initial reaction was to be humbled and touched that something I invented could have such an effect on someone. Last night, I went to bed thinking, I am a writer. Thank you for the email, dear reader and friend. It made me remember that sometimes we are able to do something, even if we don't realise it at all in the moment of creation.
6 comments:
Oh that is lovely, Anne-Marie. I am so sorry to hear about the other troubles of your friends.
It's true Anne Marie, we may feel helpless but in ways we help unknowingly.
How wonderful the e-mail you received letting you know this.
My thoughts and prayers are with your friends.
xx
I, for one, can appreciate why this friend found your writing so helpful, Anne Marie. Your books are full of insight and wisdom as is your other writing. Yes, you ARE a writer through and through, and I love your work.
I am also convinced that all your friends who are going through hard times must be warmed by your wonderful, caring support. I have often referred to you as a soul sister and after your visit this summer, that is even truer for me than ever before.
My thoughts are with the sadness your friends are suffering. xxx
You have always been a writer... to me, Anne-Marie.
It is often a bit of an emotional spot for one to be - watching others struggle in the trough while we ride the crest.
I do believe it is the way of the Universe.
Wishing those in the lows lots of love.
xx
Anne-Marie,
I am so sorry to hear of all the trouble that has come to your loved ones.
Clearly you have given much however helpless you feel, and this email you received proves it.
xx
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